It is okay to leave an abusive marriage!

Domestic Violence does not only mean physical abuse, but it also includes sexual abuse, psychological abuse, emotional and financial/economic abuse. No one deserves to be subjected to such victimisation in any kind of relationship. If you’re experiencing any form of this, then you need to separate.

God does not sanction abuse. Staying and praying in an abusive marriage is foolishness. Your children are watching, and your life is at stake. Submission is not Subjugation and Submission is not slavery. Don’t be deceived when they tell you that God hates divorce, they forget to tell you that God does not hate the divorcee. God does not hate you; God loves you.

It is better being divorced than to stay in a traumatic and abusive relationship that then leads to your Death. Women and Men in Violent relationships, I beg you to LEAVE so that you can LIVE. It’s better to walk out alive and sane than to lose your mind or die in an abusive marriage.

Divorce is not the end. There is hope after divorce and there is hope as a single mom. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please speak up. You are not alone!






9 responses to “It is okay to leave an abusive marriage!”

  1. thelmanora avatar

    This is a very timely post. I couldn’t agree more. Remember that if you are staying for “the sake of the children ” you are only endangering your children and setting them up for the cycle to be repeated. Do you want your daughter to suffer the same fate? Do you want your son to grow up a monster? You are worthy of dignity, you deserve to be happy, you deserve to Live!!!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. nikkyosblog avatar

      Absolutely 💯
      Thanks Thelma 👍🏽🤗


  2. Rowland avatar

    Please it’s better to leave alive and stay afar to watch the children than for you to hacked to death because you want to save the kids.. forget about what the church and society will say.. people will always talk but know it’s only but for a moment. You are a beautiful woman and ambitious too leave an abusive marriage. If your husband or wife is going through psychological trauma, leave first and send him support from afar, and let him earn or make effort to change. We are tired of losing our sisters,aunties and friends in the hands of carnivorous dinosaur because of marriage…

    Liked by 1 person

    1. nikkyosblog avatar

      Absolutely 💯
      Thanks Rowland👍🏽


  3.  avatar

    Is very okay o to leave violent marriage or else one can kill the other.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. nikkyosblog avatar

      True, thanks 👍🏽


  4. Deborah avatar

    Very ok to leave when you still can

    Liked by 1 person

    1. nikkyosblog avatar

      Absolutely Deborah 👍🏽


  5. whenitisjustme avatar

    My divorce is going to be such a messy one with so many people and things involved that i keep procrastinating


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